feat(module)!: use moduleDependencies to manipulate options

[danielroe]

🔗 Linked issue

❓ Type of change

• 📖 Documentation (updates to the documentation or readme)
• 🐞 Bug fix (a non-breaking change that fixes an issue)
• 👌 Enhancement (improving an existing functionality)
• ✨ New feature (a non-breaking change that adds functionality)
• 🧹 Chore (updates to the build process or auxiliary tools and libraries)
• ⚠️ Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

📚 Description

this uses the new module dependencies feature in https://github.com/nuxt/nuxt/releases/tag/v4.1.0 to specify options for other modules (and require them).

remake of #4927, pending a fix in nuxt/content

📝 Checklist

• I have linked an issue or discussion.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.

[pkg-pr-new]

npm i https://pkg.pr.new/@nuxt/ui@5384

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