language_server: rearchitect lsp for oxlint, oxfmt and vscode

[Boshen]

• add --lsp to both oxlint and oxfmt binary feat(cli): add --lsp flag to oxlint to run language server #15038
• oxlint --lsp will only provide linting and oxfmt --lsp will only provide formatting
  refactor oxc_language_server to make linting and formatting capabilities pluggable to support above
• zed / jetbrain / vim (coc) will call these servers separately
• for vscode extension, align to the above editors, i.e. no longer bundle its own oxlint / oxfmt version, it will always call the servers from project
• for releasing versions, oxlint and oxfmt will be published at the same time with the exact same version, but people can bump packages individually to avoid chaos.

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Change in architecture:

• oxc_language_server should accept different tools
• oxlint --lsp and oxfmt --lsp uses oxc_language_server with only the required tool
• IDE is calling oxlint --lsp and oxfmt --lsp
• oxc_language_server should be generic to support other tools too (vitest, ...)

[guillenotfound]

Having this would allow vim users to configure oxfmt via https://github.com/stevearc/conform.nvim? Due to not having a LSP we've needed to rollback using oxfmt at least in IDEs for now.